The Book of Provisions for Eternal Life among its contents discusses about
The Effect of Grave Pilgrimage on Human Hearts

The scholars say, there is no advice that is more effective for the human heart than visiting the graves, especially for hard hearts. There are 2 ways for hard-hearted people when they want to treat it:

1. First, stop bad habits, and turn to science assemblies, to listen to advice and warnings, threats and suggestions, and lessons about stories of righteous people. Because all of that can soften the heart and heal it quickly.

2. Second, remembering death. Namely, often remembering the breaker of all pleasures, the separation of congregations, and the cause of children becoming orphans.

It is said that a woman complained to 'Aisyah ra. about the hardness of his heart. So 'Aisyah's advice: "Remember death often, your heart will be soft." The woman carried out the advice, so her heart was completely soft. Finally he came again to express his gratitude to 'Aisyah ra.

Even the scholars say, remembering death can prevent disobedience, soften a hard heart, eliminate pride in the world, and relieve suffering in calamities in the world.